What is true love?
When I think about the meaning of love, I would say it’s a relationship between two humans based on mutual and reciprocal emotions. That means to love someone unconditionally and without demanding anything in return. It is a feeling you feel in your heart when you love someone deeply and that feeling becomes stronger in the depths of your heart, regardless of your experience with another human being. In the dark, all you can see is a reflection of the light that emanates from the other person. If you are truly loving another person, your feelings won’t be selfish. The love you feel should be for the good of the other person. The problem with most people nowadays is they don’t understand the meaning of true love and its potentials.
Seek the truth about yourself
Find out why you are on earth, and the ultimate purpose of your being. Go deeper, go beyond the surface layer of things. Realize that every person you meet, there is an essence of them that you can touch and experience. What is this essence that is imprinted on everyone’s heart? It is the will to love and to serve. It is the mission of every living being. We all have this mission; the very nature of our existence, the true essence. Discover your true soulmate. As mentioned in the article, many things keep us away from our soulmate. Yet, it is not impossible to find a true soulmate in this 21st century. Finding true love is possible. Here are some techniques to do this: 1. Deeper mind and heart. Ask yourself, “What do I want in life?
Search for your soulmate
There are various ways to search for the perfect partner. If you are a tourist, you can find the perfect soulmate when you travel. While there are a lot of ways to find your soulmate, sometimes you can be fooled by being busy too much. That’s why it’s important to stay positive in your thoughts and to have fun. You should not give up on yourself. Although it is not easy to find the perfect soulmate, you should not give up. Keep on trying and don’t get confused by the rules. You should just have fun and be happy all the time. Your soulmate will find you when you are ready. If you want to find your soulmate, you should focus on three things. You have to take your time and be patient in making the right choice.
Be open to meeting someone who may not be compatible at first glance
Be open to meeting someone who is not your exact type but instead, that’s the one you get Seek each other out for signs You have to go out of your way to open yourself to different experiences and meet new people. Instead of telling yourself you won’t date a guy or find yourself doing stuff with a friend’s ex, you have to be open to making new experiences and meeting new people. Go to events that give you a chance to experience new things. It’s important to surround yourself with people who love the fact that you’re you. Be yourself It sounds easy but, for some people, it’s not. It can be the hardest thing for a single guy or gal to do. You are who you are and that is not changing. You have to take responsibility for the things you do and the decisions you make.
Create time and space for each other
When you are stressed or tired, you are not looking for love, but we tend to be self-centered and single-minded when it comes to love. Have time for your partner, laugh, be playful, trust, respect, share and communicate. It takes a lot of effort to maintain the spark in a relationship and it is very important for both of you to do that to keep the relationship going. Use different emotions If you want to find love, you need to love yourself first. It is important that you love who you are, not what you look like or the position you occupy in your company or place of work. But you must also love the other person you’re in love with because without that, you will be doing yourself a big disservice. This also goes for you being single and loving yourself as well.
Keep in touch with your friends and family
Let’s say that you know you want to be in a relationship, but you are not sure if you want to get married and have children, then you should seek advice from your close friends and family and seek their counsel. Make sure to keep in touch with your best friends as well as your family to ensure that you are prepared in any eventuality. For example, even if the relationship seems perfect, and you get married to the love of your life, you never know what circumstances might arise, which may lead you to regret your decision. Worst case scenario, the match is great and things are looking up, but you get bored or frustrated as a couple. But, if things are really not working out as per plan, you will then have the right to get out of the relationship with no regrets.
Put your best self forward
If you apply yourself to all the activities you have listed in your bucket list, you may have an opportunity to meet someone who is good with what you are good at. This could be a salesperson, a writer, an actor, a businessperson, a caterer, a musician, a sportsman, a judge, etc. Once you know what you are good at, make sure you put your best to the table and you will not have any reason to feel your partner is not good enough for you. Dance It’s said, dance is a great way to meet someone who is unique, who brings something good to the table, who has something to offer. He/she may have excellent dance moves, or he/she may have a beautiful voice or an amazing sense of humor. With time, you can build trust and love when dancing.
Sarai, your post helped me in a way to understand that all is not lost and I am willing to work on myself to find my soulmate. I now look forward to meeting my soulmate. I am sure that our relationships will last if we both work hard to make our relationship successful. Cheers Miki I’m so glad I found this post. I was wondering if there was something wrong with me because I have never had a good relationship. I’ve had great dates but I always seem to be second choice to someone else. I’m 28 years old, pretty and a very good-looking man. (Not looking for a man because I don’t want to end up alone!) Any ideas on why I’m constantly getting rejected?